Take The Test For Men Recovering sex, love or romance addicts must self identify their very own compulsive addictive bottom line behaviors. Bottom line sexual acting out behaviors could be certain people, places, thoughts, things, feelings or activities etc.
They do this to lesson their pain or augment their pleasure.
Triggers: Triggers are people, places, thoughts, feelings, activities or things that cause sex, love & romance addicts to unconsciously go into a trance like state of being & begin to act out in their addiction utilizing their very own preferred personal bottom line behaviors. Trigger recognition & avoidance at any & all cost is vitally important in the beginning of the recovery process.
Addictive Sex With Spouse Or Others Adultery Affairs Anonymous Sex Casual Sex Cruising For Sex, Love Or Romance Smooth or sweet talking, hustling, conning, coercing, manipulating, lying, exaggerating, purposely withholding negative personal information, dishonesty, objectifying self & others, depersonalization, deception, using people for acting out purposes to feed sex, love or romance addiction. Dependency Relationships Dressing To Attract Sexual Attention Euphoric Recall Re-calling past sexual acting out episodes. Often accompanied by fantasy & masturbation Exhibitionism Fantasy Sexual
Signpost of past life sexual abuse Flirting Many addicts get mood altered by flirting obsessively Giving My Power Away To What I See In A Face Or Body
Lusting & Wanted To Be Lusted After Masturbation Habitual or compulsive with or without pornography
Objectification Of Self Or Others ( Depersonalization ) Platonic Affairs Acts out with seduction & ritual but not the sex act ( kept a secret ) Promiscuity Signpost of past life sexual abuse Pornography Pornography Addiction XXX Porn Nude Naked Adult Sex In Any Form used for Acting Out purposes with or without habitual or compulsive masturbation or fantasy Cybersex Mobile Porn Preoccupation And/Or Obsession With Sex/ Love/ Romance/Romantic Intrigue Prostitutes Re-Enactment Episodes Unconsciously re-enacting past life sexual abuse events out on to self or others without even being aware of it ( The Split ) Common among sexual abuse, rape, molestation or incest victims Professional counseling & therapy strongly advised ( very serious ) Rituals Involving Sexual Or Romantic Acting Out Behaviors Romantic Intrigue Secret Double Life Sexual addiction is at it's worst when addicts no longer try to hide or cover-up their addictions or when some addicts actually flaunt or advertise their addiction to sex, love or romance Seduction Sexting Strippers & Strip Clubs Stalking Singles Events 13th Stepping Sexual Fetishism Sexual Anorexia Or Avoidance Sexual Objectification Sex Industry Worker Sex Outside Of A Committed Relationship
Inappropriate Sexual Innuendos/Comments Unsafe Or Unprotected Sex Voyeurism Looking at, staring at, observing or watching people you are attracted to whether they are clothed or not. Staring at pornography on a computer screen is a form of Voyeurism. Trying to see something you are not supposed to see by purposely looking down women's blouses or up their skirts with or without use of photography or video cameras or other creative spying devices such as mirrors. Secretly watching or observing other people with or without use of binoculars or telescopes ( Window Peeping ). Secretly photographing or video taping people undressing or having sex in your own home or other places.
deception, justification & entitlement often run with sex, love & romance addiction or co-sex addiction. Many recovering sex addicts also consider these types of character defects or short comings bottom line behavior.
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